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Straightforward answers to the questions families ask us most. For advice about your own situation, book a consultation.
Uncontested cases can finish in a few months once paperwork is filed. Contested cases take longer, depending on the court’s schedule and how many issues are disputed.
Usually not for the outcome, but filing first can affect timing and which county hears the case. We’ll talk through whether it matters for you.
Recent tax returns, pay stubs, a list of major assets and debts, and any existing court orders. Don’t worry if you don’t have everything.
Courts focus on the best interests of the child, looking at things like each parent’s involvement, stability and the child’s relationships.
A child’s preference may be considered depending on age and maturity, but it’s rarely the only factor.
Relocation usually requires notice to the other parent and sometimes the court’s approval. Talk to an attorney before making plans.
Oregon uses guidelines based on both parents’ incomes, parenting time and certain costs like health insurance and childcare.
Yes, if there’s been a substantial change in circumstances, such as a job loss or a change in parenting time.
For many uncontested divorces, mediations and document reviews, yes. Contested matters are billed hourly with written estimates.
Our 15-minute question call and mediation intro are free. The full 60-minute consultation has a set fee, quoted when you book.
This information is general and is not legal advice. Family law varies by state and by the facts of each case.
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